Your Partner…yeah…them for sure!
No. At least not for long.
You can try. It won’t work.
Why do we have to get this right?
If we don’t we’ll be victims of our reality forever.
No matter WHAT is going in our life.
If we can say, “I Created This!”
Only then can we loosen the grip of being dominated by our circumstances.
Then, and only then, are we 100% in creative control of our life.
Owning our reality is an art form.
It takes time and practice.
You have to get to a place where you can own it without beating yourself up, feeling guilty, and kicking your own ass.
You’ve got to step back.
Look at your reality as a piece of art.
Get to a place where you can say, “Hmm? That’s interesting…..
Why did I sabotage that job?
Why would I attract abuse into my life?
Why would attract this illness or accident?
Why would I let such an asshole into my life?
One thing to keep in mind is that there are different degrees/perspectives of ownership.
Some things are really easy to own, like, not having milk in the fridge when it comes time to enjoy that delicious cookie.
A more severe degree/perspective of ownership would be something like; being sexually abused as child, or surviving the holocaust.
The inner perspective of ownership shifts by the degree of the circumstance.
With bigger items we have to call upon the most broad perspective of our inner being, our soul. So it would be more like, “Why would my soul choose to go through something like this? Why?”.
And then, get SMELFISH…
Squeeze everything you can out of the situation you’re looking at and fill your bag with all of the goodies.
Take the things you DO want. Take the things you DON”T want. Take it all.
Take it all!
Take it like you haven’t eaten for days.
Take it with gratefulness.
Take it with eager delight.
Take it like your life depends on it.
Take all the DO WANTS & DON’T WANTS.
And with that precious, precious, precious information…..
You take your next step.
You think your next thoughts.
Let not your creation go wasted.
You are the CREATOR OF YOUR REALITY, YOUR LIFE!